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Essay 1

The life of every individual is marked by some significant experiences that alter their points of view and sometimes, the person’s whole life. Many young people live sheltered lives and have not encountered challenges, especially while still under the care of their parents and guardians. Life-changing events should be an opportunity for people to learn lessons and grow to become better. I experienced one such event while in high school when my best friend got in a fatal car crash that eventually claimed her life. The horrific experience haunts me to this day, and it has encouraged me to make better choices in every area of my life.

Anna was my first friend when I moved to a new school during my sophomore high school year. Moving to a new school is quite a challenging experience, but it was inevitable for my family and me. I accepted the change and hoped my new school would be as great as the old one. My mom dropped me off on the first day, and I asked for directions to my new class. When I got there, Anna was the only other person in the room and we started talking. She was really friendly, and I immediately felt good about the school. We became fast friends for the following school years and looked forward to many more until tragedy struck.

In our senior year, Anna had a boyfriend from a nearby college. I was worried about her because the college boy was not a good influence on her. He would take her to parties around his campus, even though she never readily agreed. However, she would do anything to please him. One night, he was drunk, and when Anna asked to go home, he got angry and got in the driver’s seat. She was too scared to speak up, and they drove off at high speed. The next morning, I remember my mom telling me we had to go to the hospital, I could take a day off from school.

When I first heard the news, I was confused, but I also did not realize how serious Anna’s condition was. I hastily left for the hospital, where I met Anna’s family in the waiting room. The whole place was pristine white, with vases of lovely flowers strewn over the tables. There was also a distinct hospital smell, a smell of cleanliness but also of emptiness. Nurses and doctors hurried about helping the sick. Anna’s mom led me to her, and I was not prepared for what I saw.

Anna lay swathed in bandages, and the visible parts of her skin were purple. The monitor was beeping softly. She was hooked on various machines as she was in a coma. I was horrified to see her like that, I initially thought she might have broken an arm and would soon get better. Her family was heartbroken because the doctors all appeared discouraged. Sadly, Anna died after three days. Her death has been the most traumatic event of my life. It also taught me that every day choices can cost one their life, and people must be vigilant on their decisions.