The gifted persons do experience life, the challenges they face is what Miller (2007) refer to ‘drama’. The connection between their parents and their lives is what shapes their personality. She describes show early adaptation may affect and influence their behaviors. She characterizes them to experience anger anxiety, loneliness and envy these traits are experienced both in adulthood and childhood (Miller, 2007 Pg 9). The traits exhibited by the persons involved in an attempt to create a balance between their personal goals and at the same time experience what real life has to offer to them. She creates a sense of rejection by parents and how they affect the children and later own affect their adult life. A sense of depression is what on experiences and the transition to true self usually carries with it consequences. She describes the drama to offer security on one’s life and the victims a times fall slaves of different interest from their surroundings (Miller, 2007 Pg 59).

The effects of traumatizing events in a child’s life will have dire consequences during their adulthood. The first effect will be on their own children as was the case of the two parents and the ice cream incident. The parents in that situation lacked a sense of care although their effort to express love. This was caused by their previous childhood where they lacked a sense of love and care. The author describes how the affected child would carry the experience he faced to his adulthood (Miller, 2007 Pg68). The effect of childhood trauma is that a child will be contending and will seek revenge without analyzing the effect it will have on his child.

The psychological abuse a child receives creates a sense of depression which deters him from accepting his true self. The failure to identify his personal goals affects his independent life as a sense of narcissistic traits dominates his life.&nbsp.